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Our Wedding

<p>We met at Spike’s in 2010 — I was working and Matthew came in to drop off event posters for Mike. I remember thinking he was really cute, even though I’d said I would never date someone in a band. A little while later Matthew messaged me and asked me out. Mike and his wife Michelle gave me a nudge — “You should go out with him, he is a great guy” — so I said yes. He borrowed Jesse’s car to look cool and we went to Applebee’s in Lakeville. The next two years were full of concerts, motorcycle rides, and simple nights together. When he wasn’t playing, Matthew would come into Spike’s and wait for me to get off shift. In early 2012 I found out I was pregnant — I was nervous, but Matthew calmed me and we started making plans. I moved in with him with my two cats, and in November 2012 our daughter Karyssa arrived a little early. She was so tiny in Matthew’s hands; he was the proudest dad. After more years of building our life together, Matthew finally proposed on February 7, 2025. It was worth the wait — we’re excited to celebrate with family and friends on September 26, 2026 in Owatonna, Minnesota.</p>

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Karyssa is Nicky’s daughter and broke little best friend friend — and her Maid of Honor. Warm, loyal, and endlessly supportive, she balances Nicky’s strength with Matthew’s easygoing humor, and brings both families together with kindness and wit. Whether helping with details or keeping everyone laughing, Karyssa is the steady, loving presence the couple relies on. They couldn’t imagine celebrating without her.

Karyssa 

Erin is Matthew’s sister and one of his closest friends. Warm, dependable, and endlessly encouraging, she’s been a steady source of support throughout their relationship. Her endless stream of puns keeps everyone smiling—annoying and adorable in equal measure—and they are so grateful to have her by their side as a bridesmaid.

Erin

Valerie is Nicky’s older sister and a steadfast presence in her life. Always ready with honest advice—whether asked for or not—she’s fiercely protective of everyone she loves. Practical, generous, and quietly brave, Valerie helps keep the family grounded during chaotic moments and celebrates the small joys with equal enthusiasm. As a bridesmaid, she brings wisdom, calm, and a fierce loyalty that means the couple (and everyone around them) can always count on her.

Valerie

Teri is Nicky’s little sister and lifelong partner in mischief—inseparable growing up and still one of the first people Nicky calls. Unfailingly loyal and loving, she offers steady, nonjudgmental support and celebrates every milestone with genuine joy. As one of Nicky’s closest confidants and best friends, Teri brings warmth, laughter, and a calming presence to the whole family; the couple is so grateful to have her standing beside them as a bridesmaid.

Nicky & Matthew

Nicky & Matthew

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